Gaming- The Maligned Hobby

"It is in games that many men discover their paradise."
~Robert Lynd

Consider all of the potential activities each individual can engage in for entertainment. Imagine the millions of different types of fun, each fitting into different categories, aligning themselves with the unique personalities of each individual. Now ask yourself, if someone was talking about your friend's personal choice of hobby and said, "Joe? Oh, he'll grow out of that hobby." What is the first activity you think of in which Joe might be participating, that his age or maturity should cause him to cease enjoying at some arbitrary point?

Gaming- particularly computer gaming- is the only mainstream hobby where people (even some gamers themselves) feel others should arbitrarily stop doing due to age. Even in today's technologically advanced society, there's still the misconception that games are for kids, and when one "matures", they will "grow out" of gaming and move on to more "appropriate" hobbies.

Where does this flawed mindset stem from?

In large part, it's a relic of the stereotypes of the past. While most people in touch with modern trends are aware of the diversity of gamers (we come in all shapes, ages and sizes), there is a large portion of the population still relying on 20 year old stereotypes of gamers being nerdy, male, socially inept booksmart types living in mom's basement, dreaming of their first chance to touch a real woman someday!

Are all gamers socially inept virgins incapable of adult thought and activity? Of course not. As with all stereotypes, they are terribly flawed generalizations that false more often than true.

Gaming is an intellectual and creative hobby that stimulates the brain, sharpens reaction times, improves vocabulary and reading skills and can be (based on the game type) highly social in nature. But that is entirely not what the stereotype says! After all, Joe is going to "grow out" of gaming, right? How come no one goes around asking those in their 60's when they're going to "grow out" of watching television? After all, it's a hobby that was born and came into its own as that generation grew into adulthood! Should they not have moved on to more age-appropriate activities? Should they not "grow out" of watching television and go outdoors and do something "better" with their time? Obviously, that is a silly notion, just as it is when applied to gamers and gaming.

Anti-gamers will have you believe gaming is a mindless, thoughtless activity that causes anti-social behavior and once you're out of your teens, you should be "grown up" enough to move on to "better" things.

I ask anti-gamers: define "better". Is gardening "better"? Customizing cars? Riding a bike?

Yes, someone will surely say... if you're riding a bike, you're getting exercise, you're outdoors, it's healthier for you!

Who has determined these things are "better"? No one has the authority to judge what activities are better than others. Who says being outdoors is "better" than being indoors? You can provide just as many studies indicating you're healthiest indoors as you can outdoors. This is simply an artifact of old-fashioned thinking, as those who had no indoor activities are now parents and grandparents. When they were kids, they had to go outdoors. So of course, to these types, it seems unhealthy that people spend so much free time indoors in front of the TV or computer screen playing games.

No one hobby is capable of being labeled "better" than any other hobby. Each person chooses a hobby based on what fits them best- customizing cars might be "manly" to some... but to others, it is a colossal waste of money and energy. Judging another person's hobby to be better or worse for them is an improper activity.

The bad news for the anti-gamer crowd- the folks constantly seeking to purge, penalize or otherwise ruin the gaming industry- is that the average age of gamers continues to rise each year. Currently, the average age is around 34. Notice that is not a teenage year? And if the average is 34- that means people are gaming well into their 60's! This trend is only going to continue- on a more rapid pace. Those who have grown up as gamers, such as myself, will continue to game until we die. And with the introduction of more powerful gaming consoles, as well as casual-gamer friendly systems like the Wii, more and more people will jump into gaming, only to be hooked for life. The average gamer age is likely to be 40 or 45 within a scant few years.

Eventually the stereotypes of yesteryear will fade away, and no one in their right mind would insinuate that someone will "grow out" of gaming, just as they wouldn't think of presuming they know of another hobby to be "superior" to gaming. Gaming will not be considered any different than jogging, going sailing, reading books, mixed martial arts, or watching television. In fact, the truth that gaming is an active, rather than passive, activity, will become common knowledge.

For now, though, gamers are stuck with the burden of putting up with outdated and inaccurate stereotypes. Those who continue to perpetuate the fallacies of these stereotypes, keep in mind- the gamers you're maligning aren't kids. We're everyone you know- younger and older, male and female... and we're tired of your smug judgment. You enjoy your hobbies- we enjoy ours. Keep your opinions on our fun-time to yourself, because...

We're proud to be known as gamers.